Okey, this week I've been working on a lovesong. My first, ever!
Again, I blame this on my lack of words..😅 but that's not entirely true.
If we can talk about love for a moment..
Love to me is the greatest force in the universe. I truly belive that love can conqure everything.
But where there is love, I also think there has to be a few important elements present, otherwise the love will end up dying.
Where there is love I think there has to be :
1.accept; for us to be different and for needing different things
2. air; so the love can breeth and grow, if there's no air, one will suffocate and the love will die
3. independence; you can not make the other person your whole life; feed interests, hobbies and whatever make you happy
3. support; without the other persons support, the love you have for him/her as well as the love you have for yourself,
silently will become smaller and smaller, and at the end; die
It's easy to be in a relationship when everything in your life is A-Okay. It's not so easy to be in a relationship when you feel
that you are falling apart. How do you know that the other person will love you anyway? With all your faults out in the open.
How do you know that he/she will be strong when you are weak? How do you know that he/she will love you through all that's hard
and still love you when things are getting better?
I've written a lovesong for the first time in my life. I'm going through some things in my life that's hard, and maybe I needed that
to get something to really write about. The song is called " Elsk Meg!" ( Love Me! ) and is a prayer for my lover to
love me through all that's ugly, bad, dissapointing, weak, and hard.
I'm still working on the lyrics and hopefully this song will be used in a concert with vocals.
One of my favourite lovestorys that I've been so lucky to observe not too far away from it's core, are some friends of mine.
They have both been in unhappy relationsships before and both of them have had a lifetime of hurt in their young lives.
Then they met eachother. They are both strong individuals with a strong integrity, very independent and they both have big hearts.
Dispite all life has given them, bad and good, they don't stop believing in love. Even if it's hard, they have chosen to
give their hearts to eachother and got married yesterday. It's one of my favouritemoments in life so far. With a little baby
on the way, they complete their family and make it a family which include, love, support and cherish eachother.
To me, that's what's love is all about.
Do not give up on eachother.Give eachother space.Support eachother.
Today we celebrate love!
Have a wonderful day.